Many of my friends, acquaintances, and parishioners are not going to like this post. Oh, well, I have never been very good at maintaining popularity, so here I go.

A Hooter’s opened this week in my hometown, Slidell LA. Let's be honest. The main attraction at Hooters are not the wings.  The owl on the logo gives the restaurant (im)plausible deniability concerning the name of the restaurant.

Hooters is a restaurant that caters to people who think that it is a wholesome recreational activity to gawk at women's bodies. It is named after a slang word for breasts and features young women with who wear tight, revealing clothing. I went once to Hooters on a business trip in the late 1980’s.  I was embarrassed to be in there.  And this was well before I had my conversion experience.  I never went again. As I recall there were no 55 year old women as waitresses. None of the waitresses had any physical flaws that I can recall at all. There were no waiters whatsoever.

People say – “Oh they have the best wings in town.  I go for the wings.” Without tasting it, I would assert that the food there is ordinary, just like other chains. It is massed produced.  They have hundreds of stores in their chain.  It can’t help but be so. There are no culinary school graduates working at your local Hooters as chefs. If you are honest with yourself, the food is not better than Applebees, Ruby Tuesday’s, Buffalo Wild Wings or any of the innumerable national chains competing for your dining dollar.

No, the main attraction is not the food. This is a restaurant for male sexual stimulation. Men who argue otherwise are trying to fool themselves and others.   Women who approve of their spouses or boyfriend going there are just encouraging bad attitudes and bad behavior.

Men are not appreciating... they are gawking. Appreciating a woman means believing that - though she may be beautiful - she is worth more than the sum of her body parts. Appreciating a woman means showing your son that a woman's beauty, intelligence, emotions, and God-given ability to be a mother and a co-creator of life are just some of the many things that make her beautiful.

Hooters has done so well, that it has spurred imitators. In its’ article The Rise of the Breastaurants, the New York Daily News discussed the trend started by Hooters now picked up by other chains such as Twin Peaks (referring of course to a mountain range), and Tilted Kilt Pub where the young voluptuous servers wear tartan plaid mini-kilts and bras. You can read about the marketing angle of this genre of eateries here.

I know that there are members of my Church as well as other devout Christians around town who have already been to Hooters and have taken their teenage children there. I have seen the “likes” on Facebook as well as the on-line photographs.  Please don’t take this as a finger-wagging. I would however, appreciate it if you would read the entire article and consider the real implications.

As a Christian, married or single, is there anything wrong with going to a place to ogle and stare at women? Yes! By doing this, we are stripping the women of their dignity. This makes women into objects to be used for our own pleasure. The problem is that these young women are real persons, created by God, and deserving of respect because they are human beings.  It is not relevant that Hooters contributes to charities or that waitresses love working there. It is still wrong.

As Christians, when we patronize any of these Breastaurants, we are telling the world that this is good behavior.  What witness are we giving to those unchurched people who see our cars in the parking lots with our “Jesus Loves You” bumpers stickers and our rosaries hanging from the rear view mirrors?

If we take our sons to Hooters and other restaurants like it, we are teaching them - implicitly, if not explicitly - that people can be used for our gratification.  This is the same line of thinking that pushes the “demand” side of the abortion industry.  Women are objects to be used for my gratification. A pregnancy is just a minor inconvenience, and outcome of my gratification that can be taken care of.

Are the waitresses that work at Hooters “evil women?” No, I don’t think so. But they are mistaken about what, if any, good they are doing. Just like the women who dance in the bars on Bourbon Street, make pornography, or appear on television and film wearing flimsy and revealing outfits are mistaken about what they are doing. Good people often do bad things to satisfy needs - in some cases to earn money to eat, or pay the rent, or go to school. Good motives do not make bad actions into good actions.

People say women on the beach are dressed more scantily or that you see more or worse things on network TV.  Stop watching those shows.   We should be teaching our children and the world that all forms of human exploitation is bad.What do you think?
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So that there is no misunderstanding, please be clear that this not a homily that you usually see in this BLOG..  It is just food for thought. Also, I am not against gambling.  I have been known to purchase one or two lottery tickets when the jackpot hits $200 million or so.  I also enjoy a friendly game of poker and regularly get together with friends for $20 buy in Texas Hold'em.   Last but not least, I have visited Mississippi Gulf Coast Casinos  several times, mostly for shows at the Beau Rivage, but a few times this included a little gambling on the low stakes blackjack tables or video poker.  I estimate that I am somewhere between $400 and $500 ahead when you total out all my trips.

My issues with the Slidell casino proposals are two-fold.
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The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered on June 26, 2021 for the 13th Sunday in Ordinary time year B at St. Luke the Evangelist Church in Slidell.  The scripture readings on which this is based can be found at this link.

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The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered on March 24, 2021 at St Luke the Evangelist Church in Slidell, LA for the 5th Sunday in Lent, Year B.  The scripture readings on which is this is based can be found at this link.

It was hiding in plain sight. Have you ever heard this before?  It means that something that seemed to be hidden was actually out in the open.  For whatever reason, we just fail to see it.

The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered on January 24, 2021 at St. Luke the Evangelist Church in Slidell for the 3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year B. The scripture readings on which this is based can be found by clicking this link.

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The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered at St. Luke the Evangelist Church for the Feast of the Holy Family on December 27, 2020

A few years ago, I read what was supposed to be a funny story. There is a grammar school that puts on an over-the-top Nativity play each year. They always have a line of people trying out for almost all of the parts – but few for the role of the innkeeper.

The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered the weekend of November 14 -15 at St Luke the Evangelist Church in Slidell.  The scripture readings on which this is based can be found at this link 

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The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered for the 19th Sunday of Ordinary time Year A.  The readings on which this homily are based can be found at this link

On the 8th grade, basketball team, I was making about 20% of my free throws. In one game, I missed all 13 free throws. That was the last straw for my coach. He made me shoot 100 free throws or 10 made ones in a row after every practice. I almost always shot the hundred.  But I did get a lot better, making about 65%.

The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered at St. Luke the Evangelist Church for the 16th Sunday in Ordinary time, Year A.   The scripture reading on which this is based can be found at this link.

In 1948, a medical student named Bernie coerced his girlfriend to have an abortion, which were illegal at the time. He paid for it out of his own pocket.

The following is a close approximation of the homly that I delivered for the 15th Sunday of Ordinary Time Year A. The scripture reading on which this is based can be found at this link

Some of you know that I have been a gardener for over 50 years.  I grow or have grown flowers, fruit and vegetables.  I grow some interesting things.  I had a magenta and a white gladiolus that accidently crossbred themselves in my garden.

The following is a close approximation of the homily I delivered at St. Luke the Evangelist Church in Slidellfor the 14th Sunday of Ordnary Time Year A. The scripture readings on whch this is based can be found at this link.

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